
The best part about being married to a teacher of kindergartners is the stories I hear. Here is this week’s favorite:
Each night a dad brought home a briefcase filled with papers. His curious son asked him why he did that.
The dad replied, “Because I didn’t get all my work done at the office.”
The son logically said, “Maybe you need to have them put you in a slower group.”
Do you admire the innocence of this child? Someone who hasn’t yet learned that his value is dependent upon his productivity, someone who believes he is valuable regardless of which group he is in. I wonder how long his innocence will last. How long it will be before he learns that his worth in the eyes of others is tied to how smart or how fast or how powerful he is; that he only wins when others around him lose?
Our society submerges us in these kinds of messages every day. In a hundred different ways we are told that our productivity determines our value.
But the Good News--the “gospel”--of Jesus Christ sharply disagrees. Jesus cryptically said, “Many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first” (Matt. 19:30). He told his disciples that the way to greatness was through serving others because even he “did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:44-45). Talk about a “reversal of fortune”!
The Apostle Paul is a case study of this phenomenon. He began the third chapter of his letter to the Philippian Christians by citing his personal credentials -- his family, his schooling, and his morality. In our terms, he was “on his way up.” He was well-established in his life and his career.
But then something startling took place: “But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ” (Phil. 3:7). In other words, on the balance sheet of his life, everything that he previously considered an asset, he now had moved into his “loss” column. Why? Because he had come to the conclusion that the pride he took in his background and achievements was preventing him from achieving the counter-cultural goal that was now his greatest desire.
“I gave up all that inferior stuff so I could know Christ personally, experience his resurrection power, be a partner in his suffering, and go all the way with him to death itself” (Philippians 3:10, The Message).
It’s something to think about, anyway. Maybe being in the “fast group” isn’t the main thing. Maybe I need to learn to value myself because God values me. Maybe I need to learn how to trust in God’s love more than I trust in my own achievements.

